Kirstin's TTC after m/c Wish

My husband and I lost a baby Dec 2007 and we still arent pregnant, we are so ready and want to be parents... We are ready and want our wish granted so badley... I feel I've done something wrong, I question myself and my abilitys as a woman, Counsling has helped us both but we cant fight the feeling of one true wish, a beautiful, healthy baby.