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Conception Frustrations II?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: JSUtiger11 on Jul 21, 2013
Conception Frustrations II?

Everyone BUT me

DH & I initially began TTC March 2012, when I came off of having been on Depo and BCP. I had irregular cycles until I had a polyp removed December 2012, then GYN put me back on BCP because I was having a cycle every 2 weeks. Came off of BCP in April 2013 and TTC since but no luck yet. Every month I get my hopes up, and every month someone else in my life is preggo (including my 20yo sister)...but it just hasn't happened for us. DH says not to stress about it and ppl say "it will happen". I'm only 24 so people say I have "all the time in the world" but many women in my family had to had early hysterectomies so I really don't know how much time I have. The earlier, the better.

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Posted by: qwerty on Jun 28, 2013
Conception Frustrations II?

i get angry when women with 2-3 babies complain...

first of all i don't want be rude or hurt anyones feelings but i hate when i read women writing that they feel desperate or angry when ttc but having 2 or 3 babies sleeping upstairs. come on..why do you feel so angry about..of course it is everybodies right to want a/another baby, but when you already have babies try to be more grateful.GOD GAVE YOU BABIES...YOU TASTED THE BEAUTIY OF MOTHERHOOD for gods not feel jealous, do not cry out..or PLEASE do not do these in front of women WHO are ttc AND DON'T EVEN KNOW IF THEY EVER GONNA BE A MOTHER AT ALL......

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Posted by: barnes2010 on Apr 6, 2013
Conception Frustrations II?

Hang in there I know what you are going thru

I understand what you are going thru. My husband and I have been trying for almost 3 yrs. I am 34 and never been pregnant. I felt this month for sure that I was going to be pregnant. My chest had never hurt so bad, I could hardly stay awake at work and went to bed early every night. Even was nauseated. When I started having spotting and really bad pain in my belly I went to ob and test negative. My period started full force that same night. My cycle is NEVER that short. I wanted to cry all night long. Cant believe the patients at the office I work in come in being 35+ and pregnant like its no small miracle. We are now going to get tests done because I wanted to get pregnant without making myself crazy with charts and tests but it seems fate has other plans. Hang in there.

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Posted by: jazzymarie on Mar 22, 2013
Conception Frustrations II?

miscarriage and still pulling thru

After an unhappy 8 year childless marriage I finally found the one for me. 1 year into our relationship, after we both had been told for years we would never conceive we found ourselves in shock and awe when we got the positive test 3 months to the day we miscarried, it was the hardest moment in our lives, trying so hard for something wanting it so bad only to have it ripped from our loving hearts...that was in july of last year and here it is 8 months later and still TTC. Both my sisters have since had babies much to my mothers happiness and my happiness(although sometimes shrouded in hurt and anger) it is just so frustrating. and on top of it sister took our baby hurts sometimes.

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Posted by: Rooies on Feb 20, 2013
Conception Frustrations II?

TTC since May 2012

Hello everyone!!
we've been TTC since May 2012 and still nothing.
I have irregular cycles and they are useually 25 to 29 days. So its extremely difficult to determine ovulation. I do have a little "tell" when I think its that time... I get "middle Pain". So this month my period started on 08 Feb, my hubby and I tried on 16 Feb, and on 17 Feb i started getting the "middle pain", according to the calculations, my Fertile period was supposed to start from the 18th of Feb. so do you think that I might have ovulated earlier? I really hope that this is the case. And do you think that it might be possible for fertilisation to have taken place?
I know I should go see the OB GYN, but its very difficult for me to drive 560Km to the nearest town that has a OB GYN. Any ideas?

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Posted by: viks on Feb 6, 2013
Conception Frustrations II?

worried - impact on time to conceive?

hey ladies first time posting..been trying to conceive for 2 years now currently have a six year old daughter me and my new partner have both had tests and everything came bk ok was getting worried why i was still not conceving. anyway to cut a long story i found out i had chlymidia. i was just wondering is this gonnna really impact the time it takes me to conceive? thanks and good luck to all

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