TTC - To Say or Say Not?
While Trying to Conceive, have you found others (even people you barely know) asking prying questions or offering unsolicited advice? Do you think they mean well and just don't think, or are they being meddling and/or on the rude side? Do you respond, ignore it, brew over it all night...?

i wouldnt tell a soul!

Posted by: shannon on Sat Nov 3, 2007

Last time we were TTC i had my mum on and on about it all the time. She meant well but it was really frustrating and just added pressure. In the end we told her we'd changed our mind and were going to wait a little while. She stopped then.
Then a month later we found out we were expecting! Unfortunately though it was ectopic and i had a laparoscopy and my left tube removed.
I dont know when we will try again now, ive got too much going on in my head to think sensibly about it now after what happened.
But I do know for sure - when we do decide to try again - i wont be telling any of my friends or family, its just too much extra pressure that isnt needed!

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