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Conception Frustrations?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?
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I just want one more!!!
My problem is it's been another year and a half trying again to have another bundle of joy. I don't get it, like alot of other ladies trying, I am surrounded by prego ladies and half didn't even try. I've been on the Clomd again and I'm on my third cycle now. The first time it only took one month, so I thought that would happen again. My periods are right on, this time it was eight days late and I felt prego. I'm sure it was a side effect of the Clomid but boy my heart sank when my period came.
It is so hard to be at work surrounded by babies every day and Know that in my heart I just want one more. I have two wonderful children that I love more then anything, and I know that I am blessed. Why do I feel so incomplete? I just want one more!!!
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I know what you're feeling!!
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Trying to conceive and starting to worry
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New to TTC
What's worse is I don't have anyone really to confide in. My husband wants to keep it private so to talk to friends and family would be to go against his wishes. And, lets face it men just don't seem to understand the female frustrations. To top everything off his mom, likes to keep pushing, "when are you going to have a baby" "I need a grand-baby!"
It's all so frustrating.
I am not aware of any medical history to keep us from conceiving. I didn't come from a good family, so getting history is out of the question. The only thing my gyno told me was that I had an inverted uterus and when I asked if it would cause difficulties she said no. We recently moved to MS...well maybe not so recent. It was the last week in March. And since the move my periods haven't been right at all! And I am so regular you can use me as a stop watch. I wasn't even this irregular when I first started my cycle. It's just aggravating, being told nothing is wrong, and yet your body is all out of whack.
If anyone can relate, please share your story~
Overall Relate Rating: 6 Ratings
Heart, head and body not agreeing
We've now come to terms with the fact that if it's meant to be it will just happen, but have thrown ourselves into major projects in the meantime so we're not on hold, and can contribute to the world without being so wrapped up in one goal that might never happen. I feel like crying many times a month; I work in a shop and I see so many pregnant women and new mums, and having a child with my partner feels like the only thing that would fit right. It makes no logical sense as I have so many other things I've been working on and want to achieve, but this want comes from another place entirely.
I think the more spiritual fertility experts are right when they say if you have any doubts or ambivalence then it can hold you back. I may feel like it's all I want in my heart, but my head's maybe not there yet. I hope I can get there soon.
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TTC for a year now
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