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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: notgivingup on Mar 15, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

TTC Frustrations

I am so upset. I have been trying for 8 years now and month after month,year after year get let down. I have 1 child from a previous relationship and am remarried and he doesn't have any children. I feel like i have let him down to go thru life childless. we both have been tested and the answer we got from the doctors is unexplained infertility. i want to continue trying and not give up but my clock is ticking fast. my sister in law just got pregnant and it's so hard for me to be around her. i do love her dearly but to know she's pregnant hurts me very much. my husband knows it hurts me and he is very supportive about that and me seemingly not being able to get pregnant. i just wish i can see 2 lines on a test soon. but after 8 years, is this going to happen?! the relax and it will happen statement i have heard over and over again does not work. Good luck to all you ttc''ers and hope and pray you all will have the baby of your dreams come true.

Overall Relate Rating: 12 Ratings

Posted by: LadyAA on Mar 14, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Trying

I was pregant last year, in 2007, around June, and I had a blighted ovum. They had to abort the pregnancy, because i had an empty sac. I am taking prenatal vitamins now, and i'm trying to get pregnant. The hard thing here is that i don't live with my boyfriend, so it's pretty difficult for me to "get" him on my ovulation days. I'm still going to try anyhow.

Overall Relate Rating: 4 Ratings

Posted by: NOLUCK4 on Mar 13, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

hope and disappointed

I've been married for 7 yrs and still trying it seems i only 1 tube to work with and every mnth i go through the cycle monitoring program and every month i'm disappointed for some reason or the other. i've been on clomid and every month i seem to ovalate on the wrong side.
My husband is the one that get the questions about when were going to have kids and i pretend that i don't want any!

Overall Relate Rating: 3 Ratings

Posted by: summerlove on Mar 11, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Hope

I will keep all of you in my prayers. I am blessed with two little boys. My first pregnancy, I had a miscarriage. A few months later, I was ready to try again and it took over a year to get pregnant! Apparently, I had developed an infection after my D&C and it caused my fallopian tubes to be blocked. I saw an infertility specialist and I was scheduled for IVF for the following month. I had an HSG around the same time my IVF was scheduled and after that i was able to get pregnant...no IVF, needed! The HSG helped to clear some of the scar tissue to allow the sperm and egg to meet. I had a healthy baby boy.

I wanted to have another child as soon as possible because I was told the scar tissue could build back up again. When my son was 5 months, i conceived again; however, it was an eptopic pregnancy. (This was in January) The following Novemeber, I found out I was pregant with my second son and he was born in July. This was 2004. I know every condition is different and the heart ache seems to linger on each ...but there is always hope. new technologies and medical advances are allowing more and more couples to share in their dream of having a child of their own.

Overall Relate Rating: 3 Ratings

Posted by: patient on Mar 10, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

patient

I agree i have cysts on both of my ovaries we have been trying for 1yr and 4mon. it seems everyone i know is having a baby, but me. several of my family members have just given birth and to see the baby it makes me feel sads that i can't seem to get pregnant. everyone keeps asking are you pregnant yet or when are you going to have one . it's very frustrating, but we'll keep trying.

Overall Relate Rating: 7 Ratings

Posted by: fancy2008 on Mar 7, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

hoping

I totally agree, last Oct/07 I went through Ectopic PG and lost a right tube. After a few months we started to try again and not PG. Its even harder when you only have one tube left. I feel so upset and frustrated with myself. I am tired of seeing everyone else have thier babies but me. We are trying for our first child, after our lost in Oct all i want is to have a beautiful baby in my arms.

fancy

Overall Relate Rating: 2 Ratings

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